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This week I turned 19. Last year was so amazing *touch wood*. I have changed so much from how I was 2 years ago. I am walking in 19 with a lot of lessons learnt and lot of new experiences. I could feel the change and it is positive in every possible way. Here I have listed 19 things I learnt at 19: the first blogpost for my birthday ever.

Let's dive in!

1. Take a stand for self. No one else got time to prove your point. 

Stop waiting for someone to step up and say allegations on you are wrong or take a stand for you. You're grace. You're power. You've survived this long in this world, you are capable enough to stand not only for yourself but everyone who needs it. But you need your voice the most. Use it for self. 

You're wrong till you prove yourself right. 

2. Let incidents go. Ask yourself this, "will this matter in 5yrs?" If the answer is no, you probably shan't think about it.

Whatever happens, happens. There's nothing wrong in examining it or thinking about it. But if you still think about something that happened a week or a month ago, then it's nothing more than a thought that's occupying so much of your mind. Thoughts are meant to come and go, not stay in your mind. Identify it's a mere thought now, breath it in and breath it all out. Never look back again and think about it the same way even once. 

3. It's always a no till you ask for it. 

I am socially awkward as hell. I forget how to walk in front of ppl tbh and it's so awkward for me to meet a person and talk to them, even ask for a simple thing or doing a simple thing in front of ppl. Just know, the answer is always no till you ask the person.

4. Your real friends will love you for who you really are.

This is a very important lesson for me. Not every one you meet in you life has to be your Friend for ever. People come and go, that's a thing. Never change yourself for anyone. The people who truly love you, will you love for raw you, no matter how wierd or different from all that side is.

5. Don't compare your chapter 1 with someone's chapter7

I compare myself with people a lot. I used to compare my life with literally everyone I'll see over the internet or real life. It's always the success that shines while the struggle goes unnoticed. 

6. Don't slow down just coz they say you need to or you see you're ahead of them. They aren't. They won't wait.

Listen to ppl, listen what they say, but do what you think is right for yourself, and this world. Trust your conscience without letting your decision affected by other people.

7. Love yourself and your family.

They are who'll be there for ever. They are who have been there since ever. They have done so much for you without wanting anything in return for themselves. They are my true told model.

8. Spend time with your family. Hug your mom a little more. Kiss your sister a little often.

Your friend might be busy when you're down and need someone to talk to. But your family will always be there to cheer you up, play ludo and make you forget about the death of your fav character.

9. Don't stop or change your track coz of anyone.

People come and go. Some stay. But you are constant. You are the only person who'll always be a part of your life, who has always been. Don't change your goals coz of anyone. When that person will be gone, you might regret changing your path and not continuing on your previous path towards the goal of your life that you left for someone who's not there in your life rn or ain't that important.

10. Don't compare your life with others'.

Some people are very privileged. but if you have a roof over your head, stomach full, a sanitised toilet facility, and education you're more privileged than 50% of the country. 

11. If you're going through hell, keep going. Who wants to stay in hell.

12. Don't save everything you want to do for later. Do what you love a little more.

13. It's okay not to socialise and want to be alone though it might seem a little wierd.

14. Strive a little more for everything you've ever dreamed of, for everything you deserve.

15. Don't question God's decision. You'll realize why that happened what happened, wait for it.

16. Sometimes, you're your own guardian angel.

17. Be greatful for whatever you have and whatever your loved ones are doing for you. Realize who truly care for you or who are just building a castle of words. 

18. Do it for yourself. 5yrs later, it won't only matter to you, but to a lot of ppl related to you.

19. Don't become the person that hurt you and for their every statement or act that hurt you or puts you down, whisper "you're beauty. You're grace. You're power. You're worth the planet and all the stars. I love you and that's what matters the most." Coz that's what truly matters the most.